I first heard about Tony Robbins from a friend when I was at University.
I was a mature student, over the age of 30, studying Homeopathic Medicine with a wonderful motley bunch. We were considered a bit odd by most of the ‘normal’ students and staff, but we were too busy learning weird and wonderful stuff to care.
But back to Tony.
I was loaned, by said friend a huge CD box set, which I diligently listened to. I read a book of his, ‘Unleash The Power Within’, and I took a financial course of his in London about a year later.
This was well over 10 years ago, and was certainly my first real step into the self improvement world, as in doing something more than simply buying a book.
So what do I remember?
From the CD’s the only thing that I remember is the Dickens Process.
I strongly urge you to have a look at the linked video, and try it out for yourself.
It was doing this method, and seeing my life continue as a Midwife and living where I was for the next 5-10 years, that really encouraged me to start changing my life.
What is the Dickens Process?
The process basically asks you to think of your two biggest beliefs that are holding you back. It then asks you to feel them, and I mean really feel them. Then it asks you to feel those feelings as you see yourself 5 years from now, and then 10 years, and finally 20 years.
It basically scared me shitless.
The heaviness that I felt in my body was horrid.
I was aching with it.It felt like I was wrapped in chains and could not move.
It showed me in no uncertain terms how utterly shitty my life would be if it remained as it was, and, it helped me look outside of the box I was very much in.
That box being ‘I’m a Nurse and Midwife and I have no skills to offer outside of that’.
I can now see how small that thought was, because, if you deconstruct the role of a Nurse and a Midwife, you have someone that can crisis manage, organise, respond and react to sudden changes, have the stamina of an ox, the determination to help get the best for women in many various circumstance, be compassionate, empowering, funny, etc.; you get the idea.
Onto the book.
Well, I can’t really remember too much of that, apart from the notes my friend had made, and they were all about his fears. I remember him being scared of his girlfriend leaving him, but I’m glad to say he absolutely blasted through them.
The Financial course.
Wealth Mastery. I didn’t take this in any exotic location, it was in London, and at the time it blew my mind. Firstly, because I had never attended a conference quite like it, where they whip you up into a frenzy, have you move around and keep you pretty pumped the entire time. I had also never been introduced to the concepts of investing. The different types of investing; how to spread your portfolio and to really look at your finances. Asking the ultimate questions – what it would take to become financially independent?
Basically all those things that the finance guys tell you you should do.
(Schools should be teaching this stuff, because so many of us wonder around not knowing or understanding how money works).
Now, Tony didn’t turn up, One of his buddies did, and I can honestly say it was a great time. I took the folder home that I had diligently scribbled in, vowed not to be that person that never looked at it again, (they mentioned this person at the end of the weekend) and promptly became that person that never looked at it again.
It is only now, years later that I realise the stupidity of not looking at it, and not having a tight financial plan.
I’m only starting to do that now.
Here are a few people that are, unknown to them, guiding and helping me, but there are many out there, so do look around and see who resonates with you:
But to answer the question: Is Tony Robbins worth it?
I have two take-a ways.
1) The Dickens Method – an absolute yes, as this changed the trajectory of my life.
2) The realisation ( though very belatedly) that financial education and knowledge is crucial, and the sooner you start the better.
Turn the financial curating into a life long habit, and start NOW.